The saying “Behind every great man there is a great woman” has variations.
Behind every good man…
Behind every successful man…
And I’ll add my own:
“Behind Every Great Woman is a Great Man”
I do not really know a successful man or woman that reach the top just by himself, and this is because we where created to complement each other. We cannot try to reach our potential just on a selfish way, it has to be a team effort, and in order to reach the top of the hill, we have to re-set the priority in our life’s:
1. My relation with God
2. My relation with my wife
3. My relation with my kids
4. The rest of the world, (Ministry, work, friend other family)
If you mess with this simple rules you may be accomplish some goals in your life, but you’ll never reach your God’s potential in your life and here is why:
If I am in good shape with God, then I am strong enough to face the challenges on the relation with my wife.
If I’m ok with God and my wife, together we can help our kids to grow and be successful in life and…
If I’m Ok with God, with my wife and my kids… there is not a big challenge to be defeated with a strong and solid foundation.
There is a good idea to share the Internet campus experience with your partner, and take some time to discuss what are your priorities now, and how do you think your life could be affected if you move to a different order.
One of the things that is surprising to me today, is the low value that many people assign to their own promises. Teenagers don't believe their parents, because they never fulfill their promises; Couples say "I'll stand by you forever" and few months later they walk on the opposite direction; politicians make promises to earn votes, and once the election is done, they forgot about it. I remember one of the first things I learned from my grandmother it was the value of my word. "A gentleman always fulfill his promises, a man with no word has no honor" and I learned to live by that principle. Few weeks ago, I was having a discussion with one of the leaders on the youth ministry at Flamingo Road Church about some technical difficulties we were experiencing during the broadcasting of our Student Service online, and I challenged him to fix the failures, so if he would complete the task with no errors, I will do my hair like him... (He had a Mohawk haircut with ...
well said, pastor. thanks for taking the time to share from su corazon!
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